Love in the club?

 

Are you getting tired of all the bumping and grinding that goes on inside the four walls of hell? Do you find yourself pretending to have a good time at the club just so you fit in with your friends?  Are you tired of getting 7 digits from some local gold digger with no life ambitions except sticking her grubby fingers into your pockets? Are you irritated at the sorority chick with the skintight dress on that constantly flashes her goods in your face? Do you breathe a sigh of relief the moment your friend drops you off at your spot because the night is finally over? If you answered yes to any of these questions maybe its time to toss in the towel. This coming Sunday we are going to slam the door on the pseudo pleasures of the club. We will dissect the mindset of the male or female who seeks happiness in the club over 30.  We will also break down the types of losers in the club and also provide some shocking statics of how this lifestyle can be detrimental to your personal growth. Can’t get enough of Power Play Radio check out our blog www.powerplayradio.typepad.com or follow us on twitter at @powerplayradio

Comments

[Scott Grey]

You know what I am baffled at is the fact that you ladies won t see that BOTH sides are to blame for the problem with the black community concerning relationships....

I heard you say that black men need to stop going from bed to bed.....I agree.....but also black women need to close their damn legs too. See both sides have issues to deal with.

You say why won t black men try to talk to and get an email or phone number with a black woman......

Truth is A WHOLE LOT of black women aren t even cordial when you approach them in public.....part of the problem is men need to approach with respect....instead of grabbing them and saying "Hey shortie...come 'er:....

But another part is black women need to smile, atleast say hello and be nicer to the men that do approach them in a respectful manner....and MANY OF THEM DO NOT......

[Host]

Hey Scott. I appreciate your comment, but I don't think you've been hearing us. We are and have more times than I can count, said that yes, women do have some part of the blame for failing black relationships, but I do not believe we are the majority of the problem. How can that be when you have women, praying, hoping, wishing and damn near begging to get married all the while scores of black men SAY that they either are not "ready" to get married or don't know if they will ever WANT to get married?

[Scott Grey]

Hello...I see that you all said that I was making excuses for men on one of your last broadcasts.....here is the deal though.

I agree that a lot of women are praying, hoping and wishing for marraige...but are they willing to give up their "independence", you know being able to come and go as they please....not have to answer to anybody? You cannot take that into a marraige because marraige is a giving of oneself to the spouse. Is today's woman ready for that?

As for the man...you have a point a lot of men are not ready to be married...and some men are not marraige material and should never be (ie. losers, philanderers, etc.), but A LOT of men are saying what you all do not see....just as there are not a lot of "good" men around, there aren t a lot of "good" women around either.

You cannot deny that there are MANY women out here lacking discretion in their sexual and dating life something necessary to be a good wife...and if that be the case, the question remains, are the women actually marraige material in their current state?

Are they praying "God send me a man." or are they praying "God make ME ready for one."?